HAPPY VALENTINES DAY MY PEEPS!!!!!





I can't believe it is already Feb. 14th tomorrow!!!! This year is flying by!!!! Aaaahhhh, valentines day...such a joyous occasion for all the retailers. To prove one's love we go into debt by buying something ridunkulous!!! Not that us ladies don't preciate, but ya know. I grew up in a household where moms ALWAYS got jewelry for V-day...and not just a lil something but a ginormous rock or a set (necklace, earrings, and bracelet) full of shiny white gems...aka a girls best friend. I, on the other hand never had a love of anything shiny, gawdy, or blingy. I don't even like yellow gold. I prefer white gold, or platinum, and of course, silver. The best gift I could receive tomorrow would be a great big hug and a heartfelt you are loved...isn't that what we all wanna hear?


“For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.”
 Judy Garland







I love to receive flowers, just like any other girl, but I've only have 2 experiences in this area. The first time was on my 21st bday. I received 21 roses!!!! I was stoked!!! The roses lasted longer than the loyalty of the person who gave them to me, but it was a beautiful thought, followed by a beautiful action. The second time was for V-day. It was a truly beautiful time in my life but full of heartache. I received a rose and a gift, for which I had longed plenty. Afterwhich to have it dissolve in front of my eyes, but still worth the experience.


“You can shed tears that she is gone,
or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all she's left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see her,
or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her only that she is gone,
or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back.
Or you can do what she'd want:
smile, open your eyes, love and go on.”
 David Harkins







One year 14, yes 14 of us single folk decided to take off to Vegas for a good time. 7 guys, 7 girls, and we had a blast!!!! I can honestly say it was one of thee best times I've had in Vegas. No drinking (well maybe a lil), no drugs, and I had fun!!! We gambled - this is when i fell in love with Roulette. I was taught how to play and fell in love with the odds. We clubbed it, drank a lil and danced till out feet were numb!!! Only in Vegas!!! The last day we all awoke with hangovers, and a huge appetite. We decided on the Rio buffet and while in line, one of my friends won $2,000 bux!!! Of course, she treated and we were happy, healthy, wealthy and wise.


“We cannot do great things on this Earth, only small things with great love.”
 Mother Teresa








And now, I share with you theeeeeee worst date I've ever had!!! My date picked me up late, and he was in the backseat. His brother was driving...lol...so I hop in the front and we go. Turns out his brother was going to go with us to the movies so he drops us off at his place. It was smaller than a studio. You could see the back door from the front door. So we enter the place and its a bachelor pad/shack/dig/dump...whateva. No tv, no radio, no mags, nothing, nada, zip, zilch. We make small talk for like 2 FUKN HOURS!!! So its getting late and I'm like, I gotta use the ladies room....and he's like...(get ready for it)....i don't have any toilet paper. You can use this...(please see white crew sock above)...!!!!! In my head I'm like....wtf!!! A sock, u nasty mofo, a sock!!! You expect me to wipe my golden cat with that nasty, grimy, dingy, used sock?!?!?!?!?!?! I know your laughing at me....and I'm laughing now too, but at the time I was sooooo tripped out. Like what was he thinking??? He didn't even offer to get some from the neighbors, nothing. GROSS!!!!!! Needlesss to say, I never spoke to that guy again. Never, ever. Thank Jeebus for that. Anywho, I'm sure there are worse situations to be in, but for me, this was it. This was the ultimate worst time on a date in my experience.



“Gravitation cannot be held responsible for people falling in love.”
 Albert Einstein



The Meaning of Valentines - Great Article!